Chapter 35: of Time and Money

March 27, 2017

Assalammualaikum..

Kak,if you have to pick, to be with someone whom willing to spend his money on you or to be with someone whom would spend his time with you, which one would you choose..?
"Someone whom would spend their money.. or someone whom would have their time with me..?"
 She asked for the second time, just to confirm the question..
"Mhmm.. " 
The girl  responded..
"Someone whom would have time for me.."
"Uuuu.." 
Hearing the response that she received, with an unknown smile on her face, she continued,
 "Because that's what I've been waiting for.."
And the conversation ended there but then, she  started to doubt herself, asking the same question secretly to herself..

Having someone whom would spend his money on you would be nice, but does that really meant he love you..? 
What if.. He do love you and willing to spend his money on you but there's a thing you need to sacrifice, the time for you to know each other better... 
Would you be happy in that way..?
Would you be able to feel the love for that particular time..?
Smiling to herself, she knew what exactly that she wanted in life..

Money might be the answer for a temporary happiness, and when it's gone, you need to struggle to gain it back.. But having someone by your side, whom would be your stress reliever and stays with you through up and downs, won't you feel more appreciated in that way..? ☺

44 comments

  1. If it were me, my answer would depends on who the someone is. Is the 'someone' is the person I really like and I'm willing to sacrifice something for him or it just someone who is you know, a someone. LOL. If it does makes sense.

    Money is good but I have my own ways to earn it so I don't care too much about being short of cash so to be with someone who is willing to spend my time with is the most logical choice but I care about my precious alone time.

    I guess I'll be happy with someone who wants to be with me.

    p/s: I'm being having a sleeping problem lately so my comment is just....

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    1. Haha.. Well here would be a quick question, if you come back and read this..
      Being with someone that you really like might make you think that it's okay to sacrifice something but when that person slowly getting busier and had no time for you, would you still think that you could wait..? haha..

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  2. Money come and go tapi nak cari someone yang boleh luangkan masa dengan kita tu susah nak dapat.

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  3. Hakikat kehidupan dua2 tu. Waktu muda kita perlu duit untuk teruskan kehidupan. Bila waktu berinjak tua, masa bersama lebih berharga dari duit. 😘

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    1. Hakikat kehidupan tapi sebenarnya kan kak, kalau nak fikir balik, sampai ke tua pun kita perlukan duit.. ._.

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  4. hmmmm... kehidupan. kadang ada yg mencari kemewahan lebih smpai tak ada masa utk keluarga. kadang ada yang memang mencari masa walau duit pon ada.

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  5. Can I have both? It's hard to make a choice. Hihi *jawapan selamat~*

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    1. You can't have both but if you do, you'd be considered as lucky.. haha

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  6. time is money. time is priceless.
    everyone with someone in mind of course choosing time over money.

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    1. Okay I don't have someone in my mind but yet, I'd choose time.. haha

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    2. You dontt hv someone in your mind but no one hass me in their minds.

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    3. How did you know that no one has you in her/their mind when you're not a mind reader..? Even if you read the mind, I'd say you're at the false route cause I'm pretty sure there must be someone thinking about you...

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  7. Siqah pilih someone would have time for me than money. Hihi. Duit boleh dicari (dan senang habis juga :p) tapi seseorang yang sentiasa ada masa dengan kita sukar dicari. Dan bila dah jumpa that someone, hargai sebaiknya :)

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    1. Yes, duit tu kalau nak kira, memang takkan pernah cukup tapi bahagia tu, nampak pada mata kasar, tak pada hati.. hehe

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  8. I like this entry! it's not lengthy but very much comprehensive!
    of course I would choose time over money.
    There's a proverb saying that time is golden.
    Why? it's simply because we can't turn back the time. And for me, we MUST appreciate those people who are willing to spend their time for us, it ain't easy. :)

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    1. Exactly, Syed..! But oh well, people hardly appreciate each other now..

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  9. "I am only one call away" type of people!

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  10. My cikgu said time is money. My friend said money is time. My wife used to say i hv no time. Those three people confused me. After reading yours i got into another problem. Confussion.

    Now everyone says time is money. My boss says with time we can get money. So, time is important than money, according to my boss.

    I bertambah confused because, kalau ikut opinion boss, if time is money (yes betul) and i kata, if that person has no many but he has more time to spend then, is he a rich man? But there is no point hving a lot of money when we have no time tp spend.

    Who is confusing whom now?

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    1. Are you trying to drag me along into your confusion world? hahahahhaha... Ok let's think this way... If having money made you rich, would you be happy..? What if you've more time, which obviously you won't be entitled as rich but it's meant you're rich with love..? hahahahahah.. I think I'd confuse you more..

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    2. I am on my way to my bedroom now dah almost two of the clock, with empty pockets. I know empty pockets make relationships never last longer. What about empty heads?

      I rest my case.
      Good nite.

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    3. How did you know empty pockets could never make the relationship last when love is more powerful than money..? Empty heads should find their way to survive, i guess..
      Goodnight Adam...

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  11. This hits close to home. Ooooh.

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    1. Well, this sort of hitting everyone, literally.. 😞

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  12. Those were the days Mrs. A nak orang tu bagi Mrs. A duit yang banyak.
    Tapi sekarang Mrs. A nak dia bagi masa yang banyak untuk Mrs. A.
    Lumrah manusia tak pernah puashati sebenarnya.

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    1. Betul tu Mrs.A.. Adat manusia, ada je yang tak kena.. hehe

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  13. Hmmm I choose both. It's both or nothing :p

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    1. Huihh.. well life is like a gamble after-all.. haha

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  14. "Pakcik, saya nak kahwin dengan anak pakcik dengan mas kahwin kasih sayang"
    Well, sadly, both are important nowadays but you can't gain both.

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    1. Wew, by hook or by crook, it's either one or none... kan..?

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  15. nak pilih dua2 boleh? sebab dua2 penting bagi sy :D

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    1. Well, you could pick both but sometimes, life is about choosing and not having anything at all.. hehe

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    2. susah jugakan nak buat pilihan ni :'(

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  16. Time muda kejar duit.. dah tua, duit pown dah tak berharga.. Lebih kepada kasih sayang.. huhuhu..

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    1. Betul la tu kak.. Tapi in my opinion, bkn sbb duit tak berharga just nak perhatian kot.. hehe

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  17. tapi kalau pandai manage, boleh jek kan dapat dua dua tu.. hee~ pendapat kakak la.. mungkin susah, tapi tak mustahil..

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    1. Tak mustahil tapi nak selamat, better utamakan yang satu.. takut yang dikejar tak dapat, yang dikendong berciciran.. hehe..

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  18. AHaaa, I just realized I haven't drop any comment on this. :)

    Just read an article on the guy would love to be respected, while the girl wanted to be loved. I think I am that girl. To be loved is about getting the attention from him. Maybe we can't be together all the time but I believe quality time is more memorable than quantity. Every moment we will be together, we will cherish it to the maximum :)

    hanisamanina.com

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    1. Yup, all that most of the girls want is to be loved but just so many guys out there thinking all we want is money..

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